Kyle Cooke flipped a switch on the latest episode of Summer House, calling wife Amanda Batula all sorts of names — and raising eyebrows with everyone in the house.
At the beginning of the Tuesday, March 24, episode of the Bravo series, Kyle, 43, and Amanda, 34, were on good terms following a night out with their housemates. However, after Amanda went outside by the pool and left Kyle alone with his DJ switchboard he turned on her.
“F*** you,” Kyle told Amanda after he shamed her for allegedly not being “supportive” of him while their friends Ciara Miller, Ben Waddell and West Wilson looked on.
Amanda quickly told the group to just pretend nothing happened and go to bed.
“What is the point of talking about this? It’s only going to make things worse,” Amanda told the cameras. “I know that it’s wrong the way that he speaks to me. … I just know having a conversation about it isn’t going to go anywhere.”
While Amanda wanted to brush it under the rug, West chose to console her while agreeing that he would overlook the incident if that was what she really wanted.
“Objectively, nothing just happened. That’s bizarre to me,” West, 31, confessed. “That’s the first time where I’ve ever seen something where 100 percent [it] was unprovoked.”
Amanda, meanwhile, claimed that was “a calm version of Kyle” and something she’d been dealing with for 10 years. (Kyle and Amanda began dating in 2015 before tying the knot in September 2021. They announced their split in January.)
“There was a part of me that was like, ‘This is the best I’m ever going to do. And he loves me so much,’” Amanda told West as she started to cry. “[I was] constantly making excuses.”
As Amanda continued to get ready for bed, West went out and tried to convince Kyle to apologize for coming at Amanda seemingly out of nowhere.
Kyle, who was visibly intoxicated, claimed to West that Amanda “gave me f*** you eyes,” but West immediately denied that happened.
“I’m sorry for saying f*** you, I just feel like you don’t pay attention to me,” Kyle eventually told Amanda, claiming she doesn’t “make an effort” with him.
Kyle proceeded to accuse Amanda of spending all her time with their friends while he is ignored out at bars or even in their shared house.
When Amanda clapped back, telling Kyle that she only spends time with their crew because he’s with random people, he got even more upset.
“You’re a f***ing dumbass bitch,” Kyle called Amanda as she walked out of their room. She gave a thumbs up to West and Ben, who were in the kitchen, replying, “Oh yeah, I’m a dumbass bitch, Kyle.”
West was outraged by Kyle’s reaction, so he tried again to figure out what was going on with Kyle.
Kyle claimed that Amanda ignored her “all night long with our friends,” telling West, “It’s always a ‘F*** you, Kyle.’”
“But it’s not! This is your head,” West argued. Kyle, however, continued to claim that Amanda “hates” him and proceeded to go to bed without a true apology.
Kyle later admitted in a confessional interview that he was wrong to attack Amanda.
“There’s no excuse to drop the F-bomb and say F-you to your wife,” Kyle told the cameras. “But I can only go so long getting the cold shoulder. Getting the small but steady jabs.”
He alleged that Amanda’s digs about his life and DJ career had been “piling up” and it didn’t help his confidence that Amanda appeared to be “having a blast with everyone but me” amid their marriage troubles.
Amanda, for her part, told Lindsay Hubbard the next morning that Kyle is going through his own “s***,” but it is “no excuse” to call her names.
Elsewhere in the episode, Kyle confessed, “I’m like the worst version of myself this summer. I’m just not able to articulate anything.”
The Loverboy founder noted that it felt “very isolating” that no one was seeing his side. “It makes me feel like I should just give up,” Kyle added.
The explosive episode between Kyle and Amanda was filmed in late July 2025, six months before the couple officially separated.
Summer House airs on Bravo Tuesdays at 9 p.m. ET.
