Jennifer Lopez is opening up about how she picked herself back up after going through her third divorce.
Speaking onstage recently at her Up All Night residency at The Colosseum at Caesars Palace in Las Vegas, Lopez, 56, who ended her 10-year marriage to singer Marc Anthony in 2014, shared the advice that helped her get through the difficult period.
After quipping that getting divorced for a third time was “when I started getting really good at it,” the multi-hyphenate turned more serious for a moment.
“It was actually a really tough time. I was really about to give up on it all. I was a single mom with two 3-year-old twins,” she said recently, per footage posted on social media. “I called up one of my mentors. Her name was [motivational speaker and author] Louise Hay, [and] she passed away. She said to me, ‘Jennifer, you’re a dancer, right?’ I said, ‘Yes, I am.’ She said, ‘When you’re learning a dance and you get the steps wrong, what do you do?’ I said, ‘I just keep going till I get the steps right.’ She said, ‘That’s right, Jennifer. Always keep dancing.’”
“I wish the same for each and every one of you, that no matter what life throws at you, you dance and you dance and you dance, again and again and again,” Lopez said, segueing into her hit song “Dance Again” as the audience cheered.
Lopez and Anthony, 57, share twins Max and Emme, who turned 18 in February.
The singer marked the occasion with a sweet Instagram tribute to her children last month, sharing photos and home videos of Max and Emme.
“You were born in the middle of the night, in the midst of the biggest, most beautiful snowstorm NY had seen in years!!” Lopez wrote. “I remember riding in the car and looking out the window, where everything was twinkling and covered in white that night, as I held you both in my belly for the last few moments before I gave birth to you.”
“It was as if God was making sure you would enter a world full of pure magic!! In my heart, I knew that’s how your life would always be!!” she continued.
“When I would hold you as infants, I honestly felt as if I were holding two angels sent straight from heaven above,” Lopez added. “My life was changed forever. I cannot believe you are now adults … 18 years old! You are both so kind-hearted, generous, and loving.”
“How lucky the world was on this day 18 years ago when God decided to send you here with all of your talents and spirit and heart to make this world a better place, because that is what you do for me and anyone who is lucky enough to know you both every day,” Lopez wrote. “‘I love you’ could never encapsulate the depth of feeling, affection, and care that I have for you, my coconuts. It has always been the three of us!”
